Friday, July 25, 2008

Winning Cut

Yesterday, I asked for people to vote on a new haircut for me. Here is the winner!



I will take all of the photos into my salon. I am still leaning towards combining the bangs of this photo below with the photo above. I like the shorter length.



So thank you for helping! I will make sure to take a before and after shot to let you see the results. August 4th can't come too soon.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Time For A Change

It is time for a change here in Indyworld. My hair is driving me absolutely crazy. I feel like it has been the same for so long and I need to do something. I will miss my ponytail. I seem to wear it that way every day. I have had shorter hair cuts in the past. I am ready to go short again and add a little more style in my life. I am feeling frumpy. Anyone else noticing a pattern here?

I have some photos of haircuts. Let me know what you think would look best on me. If you think I need to keep looking, please say so. Honesty is appreciated! I can't promise I will follow the most popular choice. But I do promise to have some before and after photos for you.











Here is my current haircut on a typical long day:




Here is a photo of me that I use on my blog. It was taken on a very good hair day, the week after I went a little brighter on the highlights.



Please vote. Here are your choices:

Choice #1:



Choice #2 (just the cut, not the color):





















Choice #3:


Choice #4:





















My appointment is already scheduled for August 4. I can't wait. Thank you for helping me decide. I will be frumpy no more!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

From His Point of View


I love it when my kids steal my camera. I do. We don't have a fancy one so we let them play away. We're hoping they break the camera and we'll have an excuse to buy a new one. Here are some fun photos that my 4 year old took on our recent trip to Myrtle Beach. I am so glad that we didn't miss them.
It kept him out of trouble and we have some interesting photos that we'll always cherish. And unfortunately, the camera is still in one piece.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Chubba Chubba

A few days I wrote a post about how good I felt in my skin. I was wearing a swimsuit for the week and I felt good. I am woman, hear me roar. I have imperfections and I feel fine. Well, the vacation is over and so is my positive attitude.

My husband downloaded the family vacation photos. Ugh! The positive body image spirit has been sucked out of that bottle I wrote about.

I knew that I was a little heavier. I was pregnant for almost 3 months and ate every cupcake I could find. I knew I hadn't lost the weight yet. But when I saw the photos, I almost fell over. That is my tummy? That is my chub hanging over my shorts? Really? Really? You almost say to yourself "Why didn't someone tell me?" But of course I would have killed them had they said one word.

I will not post a picture of myself here for people to say I look great or fine. I will not make promises to myself or to my friends. I am just saying that something has to change here in Indyworld. Now, I am going to go and drink a delicious glass of water and head to bed.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Only an Evacuation

We had the evening from hell. Well, sort of. We ate dinner at Senor Frogs because everyone else decided to go to Barefoot Landing at the exact same time as us. We ended the evening with a visit to Ripley's Aquarium. It is one of my children's favorite places in Myrtle Beach.

As we left the aquarium, I attempted to surprise my overtired boys with toys they were eying at the gift store. I always say no and for once, I wanted to say yes. What is better than a surprise? Instead of being so happy with my surprise, they broke into tears because the toys weren't right and they wanted to pick out their own. Needless to say, we said forget it. They didn't get their toys. After tearing into them for being spoiled and swearing we were cutting back, we drove back to our hotel.


They cried almost the whole way to our hotel. When we got there, all of the roads were blocked. There was no way in. So, we drove up to the cop and asked what was going on. It was a chemical spill. The hotel was evacuated and he said come back in an hour.


I wanted to yell "Come back in an hour? Are you kidding me? I have two screaming children in here who haven't slept all week and there are two carafes of sangria waiting for me up there. We can't come back in an hour." We drove away nicely and tried to think of what to do.


To kill time, we went one of the million souvenir shops. We drove around and came back. Still blocked. No luck. They said to come back in another hour. So we did what any parent would do. We went back on our "spoiled speech" and bought the spoiled boys some ice cream.


I told my husband as we watched the boys lick their ice cream that we made poor refugees. The only thing I knew was that only an evacuation would get them an ice cream.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

My Skin

A post brought to you straight from Myrtle Beach, our family vacation. Kiddos are asleep. I have lost a dozen rounds of solitaire. My in-laws are away for a late dinner and my hubby is playing video games with his brother. Yes, I should be reading my many books. And for the record, I have finished two and all of the magazines. I just had to check in.
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White and pale. So pale that I am almost blue. I am standing in the elevator in my bathing suit with people. They have all of their clothes on. I am wet and a little sandy. They are heading out to dinner and are nicely dressed for the evening. I am coming down with a fish net for my son. I stood there and I felt fine. I even talked to them. Wow. I can't believe I could do that without cringing.

A week of hanging out in my swimsuit with the kiddos will do that. I have no choice. I still have not found the perfect cover-up. Because of it, I have found new found freedom in my own skin. We are playing in the tide and digging large holes in the sand. We are playing ping pong and shuffle board in the water area in our suits. I spend most of the day wearing my suit and moving from beach to pool and then back again.

It is such a good feeling to see the imperfections and realize that it is OK. I am me and this is my body. It is my skin. Now, can I bottle this and save it for future occasions?

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Loooove To Read On Vacation


Honestly, did I really think I would be able to read all of these books and magazines on a week long trip with my family? I did. I had them ready to pack. I really did. I love to read but this is a bit ambitious. I'll let you know how many I get through. I could only make myself put back two books and one magazine.

I'm Not Talking About It, I'm Just Saying...

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